Dominique's Private Funeral Ceremony
A sad story but i'm glad i got the opportunity to burry our little darling...
Well,D&C was done on November 12th 2004. We got the result from Lab on November 20th 2004. And i was thinking what would they do with the rest of my baby? So i asked the woman in the Lab,if she could give the rest of my baby to me... And as a surprise,she said YES i could take it on November 22nd 2004.
So today,the day i was waiting for.. My husband and i went to the Hospital's Lab,to take "our baby". Poor Dominique was in a bottle... Not much left from the last time i saw the bottle after D&C since they had to take some of the baby's part for test. But still,i felt lucky i got "our baby" back.
Sitting in the car with Dominique in the Bottle made me sad and also happy at the same time... Knowing i was only holding some part of our beloved and wanted baby was a sad part,but knowing that we got an opportunity to burry our baby was the better part.
20.40,we started the Private Burrial Ceremony...only me and my husband...working together. I washed the bottle,and took some pictures of it (well i know that's not gonna be a nice picture to some people,but it means a lot to me,it was our baby inside the bottle). I wrapped the bottle in a white linnen and put a ribbon on it. My husband burried the wrapped bottle in the Pot after some prayers. It was preety silence between us,just holding each other to give some strength.
20.51,we finished all the Private Burial ceremony after i put some flowers and a candle on it. It was a nice little cemetary for our little darling. I'm so happy we got this opportunity as not every woman got a chance to burry they beloved miscarried babies. Now i have a memorial place in our house. I can visit it every day. The most important thing is that i know Dominique is still around us...
